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Plan for the future, but live for today
By Ibrahim Bah
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Thursday, October 9, 2003
Ibrahim Bah -- Staff Column
Few weeks ago I found myself in a busy and work-loaded situation from summer classes and other obligations I had going. All of the sudden, a friend of mine proposed we go to this comedy show. �After giving it some thought, I hesitated to go because it would be costly and time consuming as we had to drive to Minneapolis.
Another reason for hesitating was that its cost would derail me from a savings plan I had been following in order to invest any extra cash in stocks. This trip's expenses included gas, restaurant, parking and tickets to the show. In addition, this day would be wasted on leisure instead of preparing for my upcoming final exams. After weighing the advantages and disadvantages, I chose to go to the show simply because I felt that I needed a break and to relax and live for the moment.
My feelings, thoughts and actions in this particular situation are nothing new to human nature. My assessment and conclusion to attend this particular event was simple. I didn't need scientific theories to weigh the options. I did what any normal human would do in a pleasure-oriented situation. You and I consciously or unconsciously seek to maximize our satisfaction even if the disadvantages outweigh the advantages of what we are doing. �Often we find ourselves in endless fights from being possessed by our pleasures, yet we hardly win. Even though our wants lead us to crave things that are impossible to meet or satisfy, do we have to let those same impulses direct us to leave a more stressful life?
If yes, seek professional help immediately.
Unless imminent danger poses to the choices we make, chances are you and I will continue to live this ignorance for life. Seeking pleasure is not bad; just don't make it a habit. In the end, you'll find it rewarding by holding on tight to your money and managing it.
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